So I don't know if all of you know this, but I am recently 22. That means that Im naive and full of life, right?
No...the opposite. My life is messy, and young lives are messy. The sad part is I look to people are older and wiser than me and I'm like "Help me how do I deal with this?" and they're like "LOL IDK KTHANXBAI!" Like seriously who knows the answers to these questions? Sometimes I just want to be normal. CAN SOMEONE TELL ME HOW TO BE NORMAL!?!?!?!
I'm not saying that I'm a total mess. I got an education and work experience and am actively looking for work and know how to lead my life, but sometimes I don't get the inter-personal relationships thing. Like I know I don't want to die alone...and unfortunately if I don't do something that might happen. I feel like too many people these days don't say what they mean or mean what they say. Like if someone asks you "Hey, what's wrong?" and you say "Nothing...", then NOTHING WAS SOLVED. As opposed to answering "YEAH SOMETHING IS WRONG. YOU SLEPT WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, DIDN'T DO THE DISHES, AND ATE THE LAST OREO!!!!" (Last time I'll use caps in this post. Promise.) See I feel like so many problems in a relationship were solved in one sentence.
Instead we allow these things to fester...and then the weekend happens. Or basically any other event involving alcohol happens. And secrets happen. And then drama ensues. It's like seriously? We've seen enough HBO mini-series to know that syuff goes down like this. Why can't we all be honest with each other? It would make being friends, brothers, sisters, children, parents etc. so much easier! It's how I feel, and it's how I approach most situations nowadays. I mean not gonna lie, I totes talked a lot of gossip in my day. I was quite the byotch throughout my younger years, but like we need to grow up.
So please people make being 20-something easier by being honest with each other, and like owning your words as opposed to hiding and letting all of your tequila do the talking.
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